Working-wife or House-wife

Disclaimer: This is just a topic and my sole support and loyalty lies towards all the bachelorhood and poor husbands

Here goes another interesting topic. I bet most of the people may differ to what I am going to say, however this is my own perspective and there is a beautiful option to add comments at the end of the blog. So please use the feature. :-) Again I am sure, as I have always been that this blog won't be as interesting as the topic itself. So please bear with me through this reading and join the debate at the end.

Since the beginning of the year 2007, I have witnessed more marriages (mostly my poor bachelor friends) than I have seen my entire life (This is expected and the exact count is 9). And we have had this conversation numerous times with each one of them without a serious thought, though I have tried as many times to avoid this conversation myself from my curious MUM as possible. She still hasn't given up asking. However I am not sure, she is going to find the answer here also.

Well if I ever have to answer this question about which one I would pick, the answer would be "I want both". :-D Don't get it wrong, I mean to say is a little bit of both on the same person. Its possible most of the time except few cases when a person chooses not to be wise and lacks compassion. My mother left her fellowship work in the middle after her post-graduation, to help me and my sister raise ourselves. And now that we have started taking care of us it leaves her jobless and aimless. I heard her once complaining to my father that he never helped her create an identity for herself and instead she created her identity through my father and us and she has nothing to look up to. This is certainly sad and not acceptable for any person (I really felt sorry because she is my beloved mum). We have a life to live and certainly that gives us a pure freedom to live like we want. Of course we should be kind and compassionate for others and more for ourselves and in fact while creating our identity; we must support others for the same.

Now the numerous complains that we hear is how working women never find time for her family. We all must accept that same applies to both guys and girls, but again not finding much time is always temporary unless we have used wrong sorting algorithm for our priorities. It all boils down to the fact that to make a home we need sincerity, willingness and love (The heavily spoken and sparingly used word) and obviously not time. I know several people reading must have snorted till now.

We can't avoid the fact that homes shatter with increase in pressure and mostly it happens due to ambition and proving the point. I guess girls reading this blog won't differ from me that they do want to make a home sacrificing bits of pieces of their career. But again there always are exceptions and so as with we guys.

(Dedicated to my Mum and her 30years of service towards me and my sister.)